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Intimacy, Relationships, & Sexual Well-Being

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So glad you’re here!

If you want to feel more connected, comfortable, alive, and fulfilled in your relationships, body, and sexuality, we might be a great fit!

As a PhD in Clinical Sexology, I support others by creating spaces where taboo conversations can happen with a sense of ease and sometimes humor.

My clients are individuals and couples who are seeking practical strategies to regulate stress, improve their communication, cultivate intimacy, and explore all areas of their sexuality. 

Thaina Cordero, PhD, LMT
Clinical Sexologist & Licensed Massage Therapist

People often come to me when they are:

  • Feeling disconnected in your relationship
    You may feel distant from your partner, like you’ve shifted into more of a “coexisting” relationship than a connected one, especially after stress, life changes, or long-term relationship fatigue.

  • Communication breakdowns and recurring conflict patterns
    You may feel stuck having the same arguments, struggle to express what you need, or find that conversations quickly turn into defensiveness, shutdown, or misunderstanding.

  • Low libido, changes in desire, or sexual mismatch
    You may be navigating changes in sexual desire, low libido, or differences in desire between partners and want to better understand what has changed and how you want to approach intimacy.

  • Difficulty with orgasm, sexual pain, or feeling disconnected from your body
    You may be dealing with difficulty reaching orgasm, pain during sex, performance concerns, or feeling disconnected from or uncomfortable in your body during sexual experiences.

  • Exploring sexuality, sexual identity, or orientation
    You may be questioning, exploring, or simply wanting a place to talk through your sexuality, sexual identity, orientation, or what feels right for you without needing to have everything figured out.

  • Exploring gender identity and expression
    You may be questioning or exploring your gender identity, gender expression, or how you want to relate to your body and identity. This can include sorting through thoughts, feelings, language, or questions that come up along the way.

  • Exploring kink, BDSM, or ethical non-monogamy
    You may be curious about kink or BDSM, exploring ethical non-monogamy, or wanting to better understand your interests, boundaries, communication, consent, and relationship dynamics.

  • Stress and nervous system patterns affecting intimacy
    You may notice that stress, anxiety, or feeling overwhelmed makes it harder to stay present, access desire, communicate, or feel connected during intimacy.

  • Body image and feeling comfortable in your body
    You may struggle with how you see or experience your body, especially in sexual or intimate situations, and want to explore how that affects confidence, desire, vulnerability, or connection.

  • Wanting more intimacy and connection
    You may not be in crisis at all. Maybe you simply want more emotional closeness, better communication, more comfort with vulnerability, or a more satisfying intimate relationship.

  • Understanding boundaries, consent, and communication
    You may want to get clearer about your boundaries, communicate your needs more directly, navigate differences with a partner, or feel more confident talking about sex and intimacy.

Across these areas, the focus is not on fixing you or telling you what your relationship or sexuality should look like. It’s about having a place to explore what’s happening, understand your patterns, and figure out what feels right for you.

Sexology sessions are talk-based and educational/coaching in nature. They are not psychotherapy, sex therapy, mental health treatment, diagnosis, or medical care.

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 FAQs

  • Clinical Sexology is the study and practice of supporting sexual wellness, healthy relationships, and personal pleasure through evidence-based guidance and education. It focuses on helping people understand their sexuality, build sexual confidence, and improve intimacy in a safe, informed, and supportive way.
    A clinical sexologist provides practical tools, personalized insights, and educational support to help clients explore sexuality, navigate challenges, and enhance overall sexual well-being. Sessions focus on empowering you to make informed choices, strengthen connections with yourself and others, and cultivate a more satisfying and fulfilling sex life.

  • Individual and couples sessions are $175 per 50-minute session. Rates for workshops, group classes, and events vary depending on the offering.

    A limited number of sliding scale spots are available for those with financial need. Please email to discuss options or ask any questions about rates.

    All sessions are educational and consultative — not therapy or counseling.

  • I do not meet requirements for insurance coverage. My services are educational and consultative, focusing on sexual wellness, intimacy, and relationship guidance.

    I am not a licensed therapist or medical provider and do not diagnose, treat, or provide therapy for mental health or medical conditions.

    I can offer suggestions from my referral network to help you find a good fit—email with what you’re looking for.

  • At this time, I offer virtual consultations only. Email to request a class, workshop, or in-person event.

  • I know it’s important to find someone you can trust for support. I’m happy to offer educational guidance and tools for sexual wellness, intimacy, and relationships.

    Email your questions, and we’ll explore the best next steps together.

  • The most likely answer is: Yes! This is your space to explore intimacy, sexual wellness, and connection. You choose the pace, goals, and topics.

    These sessions are educational and consultative—not therapy or medical treatment.

  • Start weekly, every other week, or we can play it by ear—consistency matters most. Move at a pace that fits your schedule, goals, and comfort with deeper reflections.

  • Mental health therapists follow state-specific requirements and guidelines, providing assessments and treatment under federal and state oversight for conditions such as depression, anxiety, OCD, trauma, and PTSD.

    I practice ethically within my field, but there is no legal oversight or licensure for Clinical Sexology. Choosing between a general mental health counselor, a sex therapist, or working with me depends on your goals, reasons for seeking support, and whether your needs are best addressed by a licensed provider.

    I do not provide mental health diagnoses. I follow a trauma-informed approach and apply a scientific understanding of human psychology, health, and well-being, grounded in my education, professional experience, and personal study.

    This service is not a replacement for therapy, psychiatric medication, or medical care. Please consult your primary care provider, mental health therapist, or another healthcare professional as needed.

    You may email a brief description of what you’re looking for, and we can start from there.

  • This service is NOT a good fit if:

    • Active substance dependence: Regular reliance on substances to cope may require a higher level of care. Consider contacting SAMHSA for support.

    • Intimate Partner Violence (Domestic Violence): If you are in immediate danger, seek help from local authorities or a shelter. You can find resources at the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE).

    • Current suicidal ideation: Frequent thoughts of self-harm or suicide require immediate assistance from a mental health professional, hospital, or helpline. You can contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (US) or your local equivalent.

    • Severe mental health symptoms: Severe depression, anxiety, psychosis, body dysmorphia, or other symptoms that significantly impair functioning may require inpatient psychiatric care for stabilization.

    • Struggling with an eating disorder: Severe eating disorders impacting health may require medical monitoring and specialized treatment. Resources: NEDA HelpLine.

    • Unmanaged chronic health conditions: Chronic physical conditions affecting mental health (or vice versa) may need integrated care addressing both.

    • Acute psychiatric crisis: Situations where you are a danger to yourself or others, including severe psychosis or uncontrollable agitation, require immediate emergency intervention. Call 911 in the US or your local emergency number.

These are general guidelines. If you’re unsure what’s best for you, seek advice from a healthcare professional who can assess your specific needs. Each individual’s circumstances are unique, and the need for a higher level of care can vary. You can refer to our consent agreement for more details.

You may also schedule a single session without any long-term commitment. If you’re actively attending therapy or receiving primary medical care, consider consulting your provider to see if this could be beneficial.